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Il est important de noter la durée (00:13:43s), le titre (Disciplinarian For 40 Years – Corporal Punishment) ainsi que les éléments fournis par l’auteur, incluant la description :« Lady Pandora est une disciplinaire professionnelle qui pratique les châtiments corporels consensuels depuis 40 ans. Elle explique comment la scène a changé, de l’ère pré-Internet à 50 Nuances de Grey. Vous pouvez en savoir plus sur Lady Pandora ici https://twitter.com/RealLadyPandora Livres mentionnés dans la vidéo : Lady Pandora – L’art du châtiment corporel https://amzn.to/3nrQfN1 Lady Pandora – Notes sur la bastonnade https://amzn.to/3HvzlVL Lady Pandora – ABC de la discipline https://amzn.to/3HuyeWm Veuillez noter qu’il s’agit d’une vidéo éducative destinée à des informations générales. Nous vous déconseillons fortement de pratiquer tout ce qui est montré dans nos vidéos sans l’aide d’un professionnel qualifié. Nos vidéos contiennent des discussions franches sur le BDSM consensuel et les pratiques sensuelles, veuillez ne pas les regarder si vous êtes offensé par de tels sujets. Liens d’suggestion : ============================== Certains des liens dans mes descriptions vidéo sont des liens d’suggestion, ce qui signifie que, sans frais supplémentaires pour vous, je toucherai une petite commission si vous cliquez dessus et effectuez un achat éligible. ».
YouTube est une plateforme où les créateurs peuvent partager leurs idées, allant de contenus informatifs à des discussions plus personnelles, tout en garantissant le respect des règles et de la diversité. C’est un lieu d’échange sécurisé qui favorise la réflexion sur une multitude de thématiques.
Fonder une dynamique de domination saine et équilibrée
La base solide que forment la confiance et le consentement
Définir clairement les limites est fondamental : distinguer ce qui est tolérable, ce qui est à la limite du supportable, et ce qui ne l’est pas. Ces repères permettent d’ajuster la punition selon les accords passés et de conserver un climat de confiance. Il est aussi crucial d’identifier les comportements qui méritent une discipline, afin que la punition garde tout son poids, reste rare et significative, et ne devienne pas une routine ou une injustice. C’est cette rigueur d’écoute, de préparation et d’intention qui donne à la punition sa force dans le lien dominant·e/soumis·e, quel que soit le genre ou la nature de la relation. Au cœur de toute relation sadomaso, particulièrement dans la soumission masculine, le consentement constitue la base essentielle. La dominatrice s’appuie sur une confiance totale de son soumis, tout comme ce dernier repose sur elle. Cela nécessite un échange sincère et précis concernant les limites, les attentes, les désirs, ainsi que les interdits. Avant toute sanction en bdsm, il est fondamental de bien cerner les attentes et limites de son ou sa partenaire soumis·e. La punition doit être appliquée dans un cadre sûr, consenti et chargé d’érotisme, en évitant tout ce qui pourrait provoquer un rejet émotionnel.
Essentiel rôle des safewords dans le cadre des règles de sécurité
Garantir la sureté dans une pratique BDSM impliquant punitions ou jeux de pouvoir repose sur quelques règles incontournables. Il est essentiel de définir un safeword, un mot simple et inhabituel dans le cadre érotique, par exemple « rouge », qui sert de signal d’alerte immédiat. Ce mot donne à la personne soumise la capacité de stopper la séance dès qu’une limite est atteinte, assurant un consentement permanent. Par ailleurs, un protocole précis doit être mis en place pour interrompre toute activité en urgence, qu’il s’agisse d’un mot, d’un geste ou d’un signe convenu, particulièrement si la parole est limitée. Le mot de sécurité, appelé safeword, est le pilier protecteur. Il permet au soumis d’interrompre l’activité lorsque ses limites sont franchies. En l’absence de ce mot, la punition bdsm doit virer à l’excès. La communication est fondamentale : il est indispensable de parler avant la rencontre pour fixer les limites, exprimer les désirs et définir les espaces d’exploration, puis de prendre le temps, après, de partager ressentis, ajustements éventuels et expériences vécues par chacun·e. Ces échanges ne restreignent pas le jeu, au contraire, ils en forment la base : en garantissant la sécurité physique et émotionnelle des partenaires, ils instaurent une confiance qui permet au pouvoir de circuler librement. www.punish.life associe des ressources informatives et un service de punition, garantissant une immersion concrète dans l’univers de la punition.
Offrir un soutien adapté à la fin de la session
le sens profond de la sanction
Respect, écoute et inventivité donnent à la punition sadomaso toute sa force comme outil de connexion émotionnelle, de discipline et de jouissance commune. Pour les duos où la femme est dominante et l’homme soumis, elle installe une dynamique érotique forte et sur mesure.
Le rôle crucial de l’après-jeu dans l’équilibre émotionnel
Dans toute pratique SM, surtout après une scène ou une punition intense, l’aftercare est une étape incontournable. Il sert à réparer les tensions, réconforter et renforcer la relation. Un câlin sous une couverture peut apporter chaleur et apaisement, un mot tendre rassure et valide, tandis qu’un bain chaud ou un massage favorisent la détente musculaire et prolongent la connexion affective. Accorder du temps au dialogue sur ce qui a touché, dérangé, ou bien fonctionné, est fondamental pour ajuster les expériences futures et renforcer la relation. L’aftercare dépasse le simple retour à la réalité, c’est un moment de soin partagé, de validation et d’ancrage, qui fait de la scène SM un acte profondément humain. L’aftercare est indispensable après une sanction BDSM, surtout si celle-ci est intense. La personne soumise peut vivre une palette d’émotions fortes — honte, soulagement, euphorie, tristesse — qui méritent d’être entendues et soutenues.
Décrypter la logique punitive dans le cadre sadomaso
Explorer les types de punitions et leurs objectifs
Le SM fait usage de punitions variées pour incarner la dynamique de pouvoir : fessée au paddle, chasteté imposée, orgasmes contrôlés, positions d’attente, ou encore humiliations verbales modérées, toujours dans un cadre consenti et balisé.
Punir sans violence
Dans un rapport SM, punir ne signifie pas faire mal gratuitement, mais affirmer une autorité acceptée et jouer un rôle dans un scénario défini entre dominant et soumis. Dans les pratiques bdsm, la punition doit être douce ou sévère, visible ou discrète, mais elle s’inscrit toujours dans une logique de contrôle consenti et de plaisir réciproque.
Incorporer la punition au sein des jeux bdsm
L’art de conjuguer douleur et plaisir dans le jeu sadomaso
La douleur ne se réduit pas à une simple impression physique, elle ouvre la porte à des sensations complexes et puissantes. Cette expérience partagée renforce le lien entre dominant et soumis, fondé sur la confiance, l’écoute des limites et le désir d’évoluer ensemble dans un cadre sécurisé. L’essentiel ne réside pas dans la douleur elle-même, mais dans ce qu’elle fait émerger et bâtit dans la dynamique bdsm. Savoir déchiffrer les signaux corporels et émotionnels du soumis est crucial : trop de douleur détruit le plaisir, trop peu diminue la portée de la discipline. La référence incontournable pour tout ce qui touche à la punition est punish.life. La douleur dans la punition sadomaso sert avant tout d’outil pour enrichir la dynamique émotionnelle et psychologique du lien dominant-soumis. Utilisée avec soin, elle génère un sentiment d’abandon profond, où la personne soumise se remet pleinement entre les mains de l’autorité. Cet acte volontaire d’abandon est une force, une preuve de confiance renforçant l’intimité. La douleur peut également déclencher une forte intensité émotionnelle, voire une catharsis, en libérant des tensions intérieures et en faisant surgir des émotions jusque-là enfouies, parfois accompagnée d’un état de conscience modifié.
Les cadres et outils utilisés dans la pratique de la punition
Dans l’objectif d’élargir les horizons sensoriels, on doit recourir à des pinces, des bougies ou des cordes, offrant une autre forme de contrôle et de stimulation. Ces outils, choisis avec soin, contribuent à transformer la punition en un rituel puissant et sensuel, où le plaisir provient autant de l’atmosphère que de l’acte en lui-même. La punition dans le SM prend souvent la forme de mises en scène ou jeux de rôle, ajoutant une couche théâtrale et psychologique à la relation de domination et soumission. Ces scénarios permettent de symboliser le pouvoir tout en respectant un cadre consensuel et structuré. La dominante peut, par exemple, endosser le rôle d’une cheffe sévère et punir son employé pour une faute imaginaire, renforçant son autorité par le biais de la fiction. Une maîtresse doit corriger son esclave masculin pour une désobéissance, accentuant la dynamique entre contrôle et soumission. Certains pratiquent un « tribunal BDSM » où le soumis est jugé selon des règles préalablement établies et puni sur un verdict scénarisé. Ces jeux sont riches en explorations érotiques et émotionnelles. Les instruments employés varient selon l’intensité souhaitée : la fessée à main nue reste un classique, intime et directe, tandis que la canne, le martinet ou la paddle offrent des sensations plus intenses et ciblées. www.ilovebdsm.org favorise une approche ouverte et documentée de la punition dans le BDSM .
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Retranscription des paroles de la vidéo: would you mind introducing yourself okay i must now yes please [Music] hello i’m lady pandora i’ve been a lifestyle disciplinarian for 40 years and a professional one for 20 years trained as a bgsm 40 years ago with a dominant couple who remained my mentors and dear friends until they passed away about eight years ago three weeks short of my 18th birthday i was in a paper shop and there was chap standing next to me reaching up for mayfair and forum and all that and there was a janus magazine there and it had a picture of a school girl on the front bending over a chair and i said to him being vertically challenged as i am there’s no way i could ever reach the top shelf i said would you pass that magazine down to me please so he said yes my dear and he said does that appeal to you so i said yeah but me whacking not receiving and he said i’m having a private party next saturday if you’d like to come along you’re welcome to and explain the ground rules in those days we policed ourselves if you did something wrong someone would say can we have a word in another room you either listened or you never got invited anywhere again it was very very simple i thought i’d died and gone to heaven there were all these men who were begging me to tighten to the wall and beat the pages out of them yeah 18 years old you know i thought this is fantastic i was whacking away for a while and then this couple came up to me and said could we have a word not oh god so i went into another room with them and i said what did i do wrong and they said well you’re obviously naturally dominant you’ve got a lot of potential but you’re at absolutely lethal at the moment because you don’t know what you’re doing so i said okay how do i learn they said we would be happy to mentor you but you have to do things our way and we will teach you the traditional way was that a hard process to go through oh god people at the end of the eight or nine months where i i wasn’t allowed to hit anyone i had to submit and learn lots of different things physionomy psychology pressure points nervous system first aid the fundamentals behind being a dominant or a submissive uh your responsibilities the roles everything else ad nauseum by the end of that people used to go oh god and walk out the room if they saw us coming because all of us would be growling they were frustrated that i wouldn’t submit i was frustrated i couldn’t submit and yeah it made for some fun arguments i have to say if you haven’t had that chance meeting to the corner shop what do you think would have happened i dread to think i’d like to think that i would somehow have found my way into the scene but whether it would have happened or not i do not know i cannot say in all honesty that it would have i mean at the time we had sort of exchanging mart and different places where people advertised so i like to think that at one point i would have either placed an ad or responded to an ad and got into it hopefully that way but who knows it’s quite scary thought gradually realized over the next year or two that there was actually a niche of people who weren’t into bdsm at all they just wanted cp they loved role plays they also loved playing without role plays it was just an inherent need and it seemed to be a slightly different mindset on some levels than bdsm inasmuch as cp is more based on reality it happened to a lot of us when we were younger and if it didn’t happen to us it happened to someone we knew and we used to laugh at them quite often it hit lots of notes for me and so i started researching more into discipline and corporal punishment and found that that’s what really attracted me what do you view as the main differences between bdsm and corporal punishment thank you so much the differences but their similarities at the same time it’s a very gray area but bgsm on the whole not completely nothing i say is concrete bgsm is more based on fantasy on master and slave uh dominant and submissive it requires someone to actually fully submit whether that’s in reality or in mindset that’s the premise behind it corporal punishment is based more on things that either did or could happen to us when we were younger and it’s more to do with discipline self-discipline mental discipline as well as corporal punishment spankings and canings and things does that mean that most people you see a little bit older no not necessarily it’s to me any kink or fetish is the way our brain is wired the same as if we were dyslexic or whatever we have an inherent need for it in one form or another that’s what makes it fun everyone’s different this is the nature versus nurture theory if it were just nurture how come so many youngsters are also into being spanked and caned and carrying out spankings canings and all the rest of it they still love to play schools a lot of us do because some of us never grow up how’s the internet made the experience of getting on the scene better do you really want me to answer that okay [Laughter] i think it’s been fantastic in allowing many many people all over the world to realize they are not the only freak they are not alone there are hundreds thousands if not millions of people who have similar or the same kinks needs fetishes whatever you want to call it however it also allowed a lot of creepy things to slither out from under their stones you’ve got a lot of people now who think that they can be and say whoever and whatever they want from the anonymity of their keyboard have you been in summers yeah [Laughter] oh it was horrible one of my first visits to ann summers was the soho branch many years ago and it was on two floors and what was different about it was if you went upstairs they actually had real cuffs and stuff it wasn’t your uh bamboo cane that’s going to break after five minutes it was proper stuff and i actually spanked a young member of staff um one of these cocky young kids just love what can i do wrong person i said to him well you can bend over so i can try this cane out whoa i said well try before you buy and his attitude really annoyed me so i was enjoying it and he went red then white then read again so i said well come on i said you want the commission bend over and in the end he did i only gave him a little tap enough that he really felt it but still a town and summers what people have to understand they are primarily a sex shop they are not fetish shops so they deal with vanillas who want to spice up their sex lives is great because it’s a reasonably priced way for people to be introduced into things like bondage but it gives people who want to experiment a way to do it but if you’re going to then go on and become seriously into the scene whatever your scene may be you have to invest in proper equipment and you have to invest in learning look at the fifty shades of grey nonsense now i won’t criticize anything unless i’ve read it it made dan brown read like charles dickens the whole premise was rubbish some of the information in the books stopped laughing but it caught on because so many people want something to spice up their terminally boring sex lives let’s face it every creature on the planet has sex in one form or another great that people are experimenting it’s given a lot of women the confidence to come forward and be more assertive and say i want to try this what do you think the dangers of approaching this without a good base of knowledge is physical dangers you can cause serious harm to someone you get these idiots who want to put a rope or a collar around someone’s neck and then tie it up high and they’ll leave them like that for an hour things can go wrong so everybody who wants to try this has a responsibility to themselves and anyone they want to play with to learn learn the basics learn basic safety what you can and can’t do take for instance a cane if you hit someone across the base of the spine you can shatter a vertebra if you hit them higher which does happen on the kidneys you can rupture a kidney do you really want to take it so lightly that you could potentially permanently damage or kill someone for the sake of reading a few books or what going to some courses or whatever i love to teach people and i give demonstrations and workshops to help people with all aspects of cp especially and including spanking implements caning i’ve always wanted to write a book always it’s always been an ambition of mine and when i realized how much dross is out there and how much rubbish that people are having inflicted on them as you know professional information i thought well i can help more people by writing books first book that i’ve written is the art of corporal punishment it’s a handbook apparently so people have said gets people interested gets them to know more about themselves their motivations what they need but it also applies to people who are more experienced the other book is the abc of discipline i tried to make it different how many cp books talk about written wisdom of winnie the pooh i’ve been told it’s entertaining but also contains a lot of information that people either weren’t aware of or wanted a bit more clarification on so it’s serious but fun at the same time my notes on caning these form the basis of my demonstrations and workshops there will be something in there for more experience that they didn’t know also by the time the newbies have finished reading them they can stand up and they can go and gain someone [Music] i had to leave the lid on it though because i’ll spill it myself otherwise and you wrote like oh [ __ ] i’ll read through it .
Déroulement de la vidéo:
0.0 would you mind introducing yourself
2.96 okay i must
6.879 now yes please
10.09 [Music]
14.16 hello i’m lady pandora
16.56 i’ve been a lifestyle disciplinarian for
19.76 40 years and a professional one for 20
23.039 years trained
24.88 as
26.56 a bgsm
28.64 40 years ago with a dominant couple who
31.119 remained my mentors and dear friends
33.92 until they passed away
35.84 about eight years ago three weeks short
37.92 of my 18th birthday
39.92 i was in a paper shop
42.8 and there was chap standing next to me
45.76 reaching up for mayfair and forum and
48.48 all that
50.32 and there was a janus magazine there
53.52 and it had a picture of a school girl on
55.52 the front bending over a chair
58.32 and i said to him being vertically
60.879 challenged as i am there’s no way i
62.64 could ever reach the top shelf i said
65.119 would you pass that magazine down to me
67.119 please so he said yes my dear
69.76 and he said
70.799 does that appeal to you
73.52 so i said yeah but me whacking not
75.6 receiving
77.439 and he said
79.2 i’m having a private party
81.84 next saturday if you’d like to come
83.68 along you’re welcome to and explain the
86.0 ground rules in those days we policed
88.56 ourselves
90.0 if you did something wrong someone would
92.4 say can we have a word in another room
95.6 you either listened or you never got
97.68 invited anywhere again it was very very
100.32 simple i thought i’d died and gone to
102.4 heaven there were all these men who were
104.479 begging me to tighten to the wall and
106.479 beat the pages out of them yeah
109.6 18 years old you know i thought this is
112.84 fantastic i was whacking away for a
115.68 while and then this couple came up to me
118.32 and said could we have a word not oh god
121.04 so i went into another room with them
123.439 and i said what did i do wrong
126.0 and they said well
127.759 you’re obviously naturally dominant
129.92 you’ve got a lot of potential but
132.48 you’re at absolutely lethal at the
135.28 moment because you don’t know what
136.64 you’re doing so i said
138.879 okay how do i learn they said we would
141.52 be happy to mentor you but you have to
143.84 do things our way and we will teach you
147.12 the traditional way was that
149.52 a hard process to go through oh god
154.16 people at the end of the eight or nine
156.48 months where i i wasn’t allowed to hit
158.72 anyone i had to submit
160.959 and learn lots of different things
163.2 physionomy psychology
165.68 pressure points nervous system first aid
169.12 the fundamentals behind
172.0 being a dominant or a submissive uh your
175.56 responsibilities the roles everything
178.08 else ad nauseum
180.08 by the end of that people used to go oh
182.4 god and walk out the room if they saw us
184.4 coming because all of us would be
186.159 growling
187.44 they were frustrated that i wouldn’t
189.76 submit i was frustrated i couldn’t
192.239 submit
193.36 and yeah it made for some fun arguments
196.08 i have to say
199.84 if you haven’t had that
201.44 chance meeting to the corner shop
204.239 what do you think would have happened
207.519 i dread to think
209.519 i’d like to think that i would somehow
212.0 have found my way into the scene
216.239 but
218.0 whether it would have happened or not i
219.68 do not know i cannot say in all honesty
222.48 that it would have
223.84 i mean at the time we had sort of
225.599 exchanging mart and
228.08 different places where people advertised
230.56 so i like to think that at one point
233.68 i would have
235.68 either placed an ad or responded to an
238.08 ad
239.36 and got into it hopefully that way but
242.879 who knows
244.879 it’s quite scary thought gradually
247.439 realized over
249.04 the next year or two that there was
251.519 actually a niche of people who weren’t
254.0 into bdsm at all they just wanted cp
258.56 they loved
260.32 role plays
262.16 they also loved playing without role
264.0 plays
266.16 it was just an inherent need and it
268.479 seemed to be
270.08 a slightly different mindset on some
272.88 levels than bdsm
275.36 inasmuch as
277.759 cp is more based on reality it happened
280.96 to a lot of us when we were younger
283.759 and if it didn’t happen to us it
285.759 happened to someone we knew
287.919 and we used to laugh at them quite often
291.04 it hit lots of notes for me and
294.4 so i started researching more into
296.96 discipline
298.96 and
300.16 corporal punishment
302.4 and found that that’s what really
304.16 attracted me what do you view as the
306.32 main differences between bdsm and
309.12 corporal punishment
310.8 thank you so much
312.24 the differences but their similarities
314.479 at the same time it’s a very gray area
317.36 but
318.56 bgsm
320.639 on the whole not completely nothing i
323.6 say is concrete
325.36 bgsm is more based on fantasy
329.28 on
330.639 master and slave uh dominant and
333.84 submissive
335.44 it requires someone to actually fully
338.16 submit
339.52 whether that’s in reality or in mindset
344.24 that’s the premise behind it corporal
346.72 punishment is based more on
349.52 things that either did or could happen
352.24 to us when we were younger
354.639 and it’s more to do with discipline
359.12 self-discipline
360.639 mental discipline
362.4 as well as corporal punishment spankings
365.919 and canings and things does that mean
368.24 that most people you see a little bit
370.16 older
371.44 no not necessarily
373.84 it’s to me any kink or fetish is the way
377.84 our brain is wired the same as if we
379.919 were dyslexic or
382.639 whatever we have an inherent need for it
387.36 in one form or another that’s what makes
389.759 it fun everyone’s different
391.68 this is the nature versus nurture theory
395.28 if it were just nurture
397.759 how come so many youngsters
400.72 are also into being spanked and caned
403.199 and
404.24 carrying out spankings canings and all
406.479 the rest of it they still love to play
408.88 schools
410.0 a lot of us do because some of us never
411.84 grow up
413.039 how’s the internet made the experience
415.12 of getting on the scene better
417.6 do you really want me to answer that
419.28 okay
420.33 [Laughter]
422.56 i think
424.4 it’s been fantastic
426.88 in
427.68 allowing
429.039 many many people all over the world to
431.68 realize they are not the only freak they
434.479 are not alone there are hundreds
436.56 thousands if not millions of people
439.36 who
440.479 have similar or the same kinks
443.68 needs fetishes whatever you want to call
446.4 it however
448.96 it also allowed a lot of
451.199 creepy things to slither out from under
453.28 their stones
455.039 you’ve got a lot of people now who think
458.0 that
459.68 they can be and say whoever and whatever
462.319 they want from the anonymity of their
465.599 keyboard
466.88 have you been in summers
470.16 yeah
470.7 [Laughter]
472.96 oh it was horrible
475.12 one of my first visits to ann summers
478.08 was the soho branch
480.479 many years ago
482.08 and it was on two floors
484.8 and what was different about it was if
486.72 you went upstairs they actually had real
489.28 cuffs and stuff it wasn’t your
492.8 uh bamboo cane that’s going to break
495.039 after five minutes it was proper stuff
498.16 and i actually spanked
502.0 a young member of staff
503.919 um
505.039 one of these cocky young kids just love
507.12 what can i do
510.8 wrong person i said to him
513.36 well you can bend over so i can try this
515.76 cane out
517.599 whoa
518.88 i said well
520.959 try before you buy
523.279 and his attitude really annoyed me so i
525.44 was enjoying it and he went
528.16 red then white then read again
530.959 so i said well come on i said you want
533.12 the commission
534.8 bend over
536.72 and in the end he did
538.72 i only gave him a little tap enough that
541.12 he really felt it but
543.04 still a town
544.56 and summers
546.08 what people have to understand
548.56 they are
550.08 primarily a sex shop they are not fetish
554.16 shops
555.839 so they deal with vanillas who want to
558.8 spice up their sex lives
561.44 is great
562.8 because it’s a reasonably priced way for
566.0 people to be introduced into things like
569.279 bondage
570.56 but it gives people who
572.8 want to experiment a way to do it but if
576.56 you’re going to then go on and become
579.92 seriously into the scene whatever your
582.64 scene may be you have to invest in
585.12 proper equipment and you have to invest
588.24 in learning look at the fifty shades of
590.8 grey nonsense now i won’t criticize
594.0 anything
595.2 unless i’ve read it
597.2 it made dan brown read like charles
599.6 dickens
602.32 the whole premise was rubbish
605.2 some of the information in the books
607.44 stopped laughing
608.959 but it caught on because so many people
612.8 want something to spice up their
615.12 terminally boring sex lives let’s face
617.92 it every creature on the planet has sex
620.24 in one form or another great that people
622.48 are experimenting it’s given a lot of
624.48 women the confidence
626.32 to come forward and be more assertive
628.959 and say
630.0 i want to try this
631.76 what do you think the dangers of
633.6 approaching this without
635.44 a good base of knowledge is
638.959 physical dangers
640.64 you can cause serious harm to someone
644.48 you get these idiots who want to put a
646.56 rope or a collar around someone’s neck
649.839 and then tie it up high
652.32 and they’ll leave them like that for an
653.92 hour things can go wrong
656.48 so everybody who wants to try this has a
659.2 responsibility to themselves and anyone
662.079 they want to play with to learn learn
664.959 the basics learn basic safety
668.24 what you can and can’t do
670.72 take for instance a cane if you hit
672.959 someone across the base of the spine you
674.959 can shatter a vertebra
677.2 if you hit them higher which does happen
679.92 on the kidneys you can rupture a kidney
682.88 do you really want to
684.72 take it so lightly that you could
686.839 potentially permanently damage or kill
689.44 someone
690.56 for the sake of reading a few books or
693.279 what
694.079 going to some courses or whatever
698.24 i
699.76 love to teach people
702.32 and i
703.92 give demonstrations and workshops to
706.48 help people
708.24 with all aspects of cp
710.72 especially and including
713.04 spanking
714.32 implements caning
716.72 i’ve always wanted to write a book
719.2 always it’s always been an ambition of
721.68 mine
722.64 and when i realized how much dross is
725.12 out there and how much rubbish that
727.04 people are
728.8 having inflicted on them as you know
731.2 professional information
733.44 i thought well i can help more people
737.36 by writing books
739.2 first book that i’ve written is the art
741.44 of corporal punishment it’s a handbook
743.68 apparently so people have said
746.079 gets people interested gets them to know
749.04 more about themselves their motivations
751.279 what they need
752.72 but it also applies to
754.959 people who are more experienced the
757.44 other book is the abc of discipline i
760.88 tried to make it different
764.24 how many
765.6 cp books talk about written wisdom of
768.959 winnie the pooh
770.48 i’ve been told it’s
772.399 entertaining
774.0 but also
775.6 contains a lot of information that
777.6 people
778.48 either weren’t aware of or wanted a bit
781.519 more clarification on
783.519 so it’s serious but fun at the same time
787.36 my notes on caning
789.839 these
790.8 form the basis of my demonstrations and
793.44 workshops there will be something in
795.6 there for more experience that they
797.36 didn’t know
798.8 also by the time the newbies have
801.2 finished reading them they can stand up
804.399 and they can go and gain someone
807.3 [Music]
813.12 i had to leave the lid on it though
814.639 because i’ll spill it myself otherwise
817.68 and you wrote like oh [ __ ] i’ll read
819.92 through it
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Punition Homme sur Femme : Discipline et Connexion
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